You’ve registered your child for kindergarten. That is no small thing.
Thank you for choosing the Ottawa Catholic School Board (OCSB). We know that when you register your child, you are trusting us with someone who is your whole world. That trust matters to us.
And now you might be wondering what you should be doing. Take a breath. Kindergarten is not about arriving perfectly prepared. It is about belonging.
Some children will walk in confidently. Some will hold your hand a little tighter that first morning. Some will know their letters. Some will still be working on zipping their jackets. All of them belong here.
At the OCSB, we begin with relationships. We build community. We care for the whole child, heart, mind, and spirit. When children feel safe, known, and supported, learning follows.
And the good news? The everyday moments you are already living at home are the best preparation of all.
Here are 10 simple ways to help your child begin kindergarten feeling confident, capable, and excited to grow.
1. Help Them Get to Know Their New School
Familiarity builds confidence. All our elementary schools host Kindergarten Open House Nights in March. It is a great opportunity to visit your child’s school in person, meet the kindergarten team, ask questions, and get familiar with the space.
If you cannot attend in person, we also offer virtual 3D tours of every elementary school’s kindergarten classroom. Explore together and look for spaces your child will use every day, like the art area, cubbies, and playground, from the comfort of home.
Over the summer, practice the trip to school by walking, biking, or driving the route together. Point out fun landmarks like signs, trees, or interesting buildings so the journey starts to feel familiar and safe.
2. Encourage Independence in Everyday Tasks
Kindergarten is full of “I can do it myself” moments. Help your child practice simple daily skills such as:
- Getting dressed.
- Opening lunch containers.
- Using the bathroom independently.
Mastering these everyday tasks builds confidence and can reduce stress during the school day.
3. Label All Belongings
Backpacks, lunch containers, water bottles, sweaters, shoes, if it is going to school, please put your child’s name on it. Labels make it much easier to reunite lost items and help children learn responsibility for their belongings.
4. Practice Being Apart
Short periods of separation can help your child adjust to being away from you during school hours. Whether it is a playdate, a babysitter, or time with a family member, always let your child know:
- Where you’re going.
- Who they’ll be with.
- When you’ll be back.
Clear communication helps build trust and a sense of security.
5. Let Them Make Simple Choices
Giving children opportunities to make choices supports independence and decision‑making. Try things like:
- Choosing a fruit or snack at the grocery store.
- Picking their bedtime story.
- Selecting clothes for the next day.
These small choices help children feel empowered and heard.
6. Make Learning a Natural Part of Daily Life
Children thrive when learning feels fun, not forced. You can spark curiosity and excitement by:
- Reading stories together.
- Visiting the library.
- Doing puzzles or crafts.
- Singing songs.
- Reading recipes or road signs together.
These everyday activities build early literacy, problem-solving, and a love of learning.
7. Ask Thoughtful, Specific Questions
Conversations help children practice expressing their thoughts and emotions. Instead of general questions like, “What did you do today?”, try:
- “What was your favourite story?”
- “Who did you play with outside?”
- “What made you smile today?”
Specific questions are easier to answer and encourage meaningful dialogue.
8. Choose Comfort Over Style for School Clothes
Movement is a big part of the kindergarten day, including climbing, running, dancing, and playing. Opt for clothes and footwear that are:
- Comfortable.
- Easy to put on and take off.
- Suitable for active play.
When kids aren’t struggling with buttons or tight shoes, they can focus on learning and having fun.
9. Support Their Bodies With Rest and Healthy Snacks
Young children need regular fuel and plenty of rest. It’s recommended:
- Nutritious snacks like fresh fruit, veggies, or unsweetened options.
- A consistent bedtime routine.
- Limited screen time before bed.
Well‑rested, well‑nourished kids are better able to learn, focus, and enjoy their day.
10. Share Positive School Stories
Your child may already be curious about what school will be like. Share happy memories, favourite activities, or kind teachers you remember. Keep the tone positive and avoid passing along your own worries or anxieties.
Your optimism helps your child feel excited and reassured about this new chapter.
Starting kindergarten is a big milestone for both children and parents. With encouragement, patience, and a few simple preparations, you can help your child begin their school journey feeling confident, capable, and ready to learn.
